In All of us, once in our life we badly need someone to talk to, to cry on their shoulders, and ask advices for a difficult situations and decisions. They are what we call, best friends. They are great person always there to guide us, supports us in everything we do, a best friend protect us from people that harmful and can hurt us.
Best friends are the one who is there for you, in sickness, success, happiness and in the worse situations you are going to have. Best friends are always there in every special moment in your life. Every occasions, celebrations and victories they are there for you, they are two times happier than you if you have succeed in life and found all what you are looking for.
Best friends are just a call or one text from you. They will not hesitate to go in your house even in the middle of the night. They are always there to listen to your dramas in life. They are listening to your stories even if you already told them the last time.
Once in our life we did some mistakes and bad deeds. We need a friend that is going to supports us in the paths we are going to walk. A best friend will never back stab you.
Best friends are one soul dwelling into 2 different bodies. They are the friends send by angels. Being best friends is sharing difficulties in life, happiness, secrets and private things in your life and family. They are going to listen but they will not tell it to anyone. They will keep is as theirs secrets, too. Even you don't tell them not tell it to anyone.
Does your best friend have the qualities above? Or they don't? Even if they don't, it doesn't mean that they are not true best friends. In real, everyone has the way how to show their love for you. They have different attitudes and beliefs that we need to know. In my own experiences, in having different best friends in my high school and college days they have different personalities I encountered. At the end, there is someone who is really important in my life, someone I can lean on. To tell honestly that she is different from the above qualities, I still want her to be my best friend.
Every best friend has their names for each other, like best, bezzy, sissy, men and for me we have "angel", I call her angel and she calls me angel too, because we believe that we are both angels from heaven. They say that different personalities for best friends are better that to have than the same personalities, but there is an advantage and disadvantage. The good part is that you both discover new things from each other, and sometimes the bad part is that you have to quarrel just to decide in a particular situations, like what to buy, what to eat, stuffs like that.
Sharing of stories, love life, secrets, favorites and likes are common to best friends. Crying if there's a problem and laughs a lot even a joke told is not that funny. Laughter is the best medicine, people saying. Laughter therapy is good to relieves pain and removes emotional problems, depressions. It is like an alternative therapy that can help friends to pass through difficulties in their lives.
- Step 1: Respect yourself,
- Step 2: Trust each other,
- Step 3: Be Loyal,
- Step 4: Spend time together,
- Step5: Listen,
- Step6: Care for each other and lastly
- : Be realistic.
Lesson learned: Don't expect so much from your best friends, because they cannot always help and be there for you. Don't expect them to say the words you want to hear. If you expect too much from them, there will be disappointments in your part if they did't do want you want. This will cause a fight or you won't feel so good. Be nice and don't text or call them just to say that they are liars.
But the real point, if you know that you both are not meant to be best friends. At the end, just know how lucky you were to have that great person have part in your life. Just be happy for each other. If you picked other new friend over your best friend, don't just leave her/him stay, never leave them. Friends are treasures, they are priceless and you are so lucky to have the bestest friend in the world. Treasure every friend you are going to have in your life.
"Best friends accept you and see for who you are, no matter what happen they will do anything just to be by your side."
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